O BOY IT IS RAINING!

WHY IS IT FATHERS OF CHILDREN THEY DONT SUPPORT HAVE RIGHTS TO ANYTHING? MY EX HASNT WORKED IN OVER A YEAR HASNT PAID CHILD SUPPORT IN AS LONG, BUT WAS ABLE TO FILE IN THE COURT FOR VISITATION...WHICH ISNT FREE. WHILE I GO TO WORK EVERYDAY TO SUPPORT MY CHILDREN, THEN HAVE TO LEAVE WORK TO GO TO A THOUSAND BULLSHIT COURT DATES. ALL THE WHILE PAYING FOR CHILD CARE BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT YOUR KIDS IN A JUVINLE COURT! THE MALE! JUDGE AWARDS VISITATION TO THIS LOWLIFE, WHO LIED IN COURT ABOUT WHERE HE IS LIVING, WHEN AND WHY HE LOST HIS JOB, AND WHERE MY SON WOULD BE STAYING! SO EVERY WEDNESDAY, AND EVERY OTHER WEEKEND I HAVE TO MEET AT A PLACE THAT SETS UP DROP OFFS AND PICK UPS, SO WE DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH EACH OTHER. WONDERFUL ESPECIALLY SINCE HE HAS A VIOLENT HISTORY AND ALSO HAS BEEN CHARGED WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR "CHOKE SLAMMING" ME IN FRONT OF MY SON. ALL THIS FUN TO FIND OUT MY SON DOENST HAVE A BEDROOM, LET ALONE A BED TO SLEEP IN. BECAUSE HIS FATHER ILLEGALLY LIVES WITH HIS GIRL FRIEND IN A SUBSIDIZED APARTMENT. NO PROBLEM WITH LOW INCOME HOUSING! AT ALL I HAD TO USE THEM TO GET BACK ON MY FEET TOO! BUT THEY ABUSE IT. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO GIVE THOSE OF US WHO HAVE EVER RECIEVED ASSISTANCE RIGHTFULLY A BAD NAME!! BUT MY SON HAS TO SHARE A TWIN SIZED BED WITH ANOTHER CHILD, ISNT BEING TAKEN CARE OF, COMES HOME DIRTY, AND UNHAPPY. THE COURTS ARE UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT HE IS WITH HIS FATHER AT HIS GRANDPARENTS WHERE HE ACTUALLY LIVES...HA IT IS ACTUALLY JUST THE ADDRESS HE USES.. THEN TODAY I GET SERVED AT WORK! HE FILED CONTEMPT OF COURT PAPERS! THE PLACE WE MEET REQUIRES AN ORIENTATION BEFORE YOU START. BUT FOR SOME REASON THEY ALLOWED US TO DO IT THE FIRST WEEKEND BUT ADVISED AGAINST IT AGAIN UNTIL WE HAD ORIENTATION. SO FOR THE 1 DAY THEY TOLD ME NOT TO MEET HE FILED PAPERS...AGAIN..THAT ARENT FREE...AGAIN. SO I HAVE TO MISS WORK...AGAIN TO DEAL WITH HIS IGNORANCE! ANYONE ELSE UNDERSTAND HOW THIS BULLSHIT WORKS!? AT ALL? I DO EVERYTHING I CAN TO KEEP MY CHILDREN FEED, EDUCATED, CLEAN AND WONDERFUL...WHICH IF I DO SAY SO MYSELF, I HAVE DONE A DAMN GOOD JOB, PRIMARILY BY MYSELF...BUT YOU WANT TO PLAY GAMES WITH MY SON...THAT PISSES ME OFF... GO GET A JOB! WORK, PAY CHILD SUPPORT! DO WHAT I DO EVERY FUCKING DAY!